Establishing contacts with children

At the outset, it should be noted that regardless of the outcome of the case regarding parental authority (even if it is deprived), the parent has the right and obligation to maintain contact with the child. It may happen that any contact would pose a threat to the child. However, these are extreme cases. In a situation where contact with a parent is desirable but requires control, it is sometimes possible to visit the child in the presence of the other parent or guardian. The place where such contacts take place is also regulated. They may be established at the child’s place of residence or at the place of residence of the parent making the contact decision.

In a situation where there is no doubt as to the method of contact between the child and the parent with whom the child does not stay on a daily basis, the problem usually lies in the acceptance by both parties of specific days and hours of contact. A good solution is to prepare a comprehensive list of visits to prevent further conflicts resulting from inaccuracies. In the matter of contacts, it is possible to formulate a motion not to rule on contacts. However, this request must be shared by the other parent.

To sum up, first of all, it is worth considering the possibility of reaching an amicable agreement with the other party. It is worth remembering that parental authority and contact are two independent regulations. There may also be a situation in which it will be possible to agree on only one of these issues. If there is such a chance, it is worth taking the initiative, because it will significantly speed up the matter and reduce unnecessary emotions, also in children.